“Take a break first”: the reason your partner is often cheated on

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Do you think that when it comes to meeting someone you can detect if that person is going to cheat on you with another? Do you really fully trust your partner? In personal relationships, we often jump in and end up falling in love too early, which can take its toll. Maybe your new “better half” is not as good or correct as you think. How do you know if it’s the right one and it’s not going to make you suffer?

According to a study carried out by the University of Queensland, those people who have had many sexual partners or have impulsive tendencies are the most likely to cheat on their new romantic partners . Although each relationship is unique, the researchers studied why many and many tend to infidelity and the factors that make a person more likely to cheat on their partner.

 Those who experienced sexual intimacy with a greater number of people are more likely to be unfaithful than those who do not Those that are defined by impulsiveness are, logically, the most suspicious. They do not take a pause to analyze the situation and think about the other person when committing the infidelity. They act on their immediate thoughts and emotions, according to the study published in the ‘ British Journal of Psychology’. On the other hand, scientists see more likely that those who have had many more sexual partners in the past are more cheating in their romantic relationships, since they “have developed certain skills” over time. Be that as it may, remember that the most important thing when embarking on a love affair is to be honest with the other person , since their emotional stability depends directly on you. If, on the other hand, you have ever been betrayed, you must bear in mind that life is very long and does not deserve you, in addition to reflecting on the possible acquired trauma that may generate a lack of confidence in your future relationships.

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“Participants who experienced sexual intimacy with a greater number of people also reported a greater inclination towards people outside the relationship, either in the form of kisses or simply flirting,” acknowledge the study authors in ‘ The Independent’ . “This tendency may be attributable to the abilities of individuals to recognize the signals or feel sexually desired or vice versa.” As expected, another reason the study argues is feelings of emotional detachment from the partner or low satisfaction in the relationship, whether sexual or vital. Rather, the trait that makes horns less unlikely is that the relationship has great length and depth in commitment. Therefore, if you have been with your better half for a long time and both of you have started a life together, rest assured. Although you never know.

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To carry out the study , the researchers distributed surveys to 123 people between 17 and 25 years old who were immersed in a romantic relationship, so we can say that the sample analyzed is a bit small and is based on a percentage of the population that is quite young . In addition to problems stemming from dissatisfaction or compatibility, the study also found that men are more likely to have their infidelity take the form of a sexual relationship, while women are only in the form of a kiss.

Fortunately, if you are among those who were deceived, another recent survey showed that women who were cheated on at the end end up learning from the experience and, when it comes to finding a new person, they know how to choose much better.

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